Life teen dating violence what every child and parent must know If you have teenage children who are getting ready to start dating you should read this shocking article and help your child learn some techniques to have safe dates and know what to do in case things go wrong. Learn some Warning Signs; Set Standards; and Develop a Safety Plan. Trust but Verify! Perhaps our children-with our help-represent the best opportunity to break what appears to be a viscous cycle of domestic violence. If there ever was any doubt in your mind where adult domestic violence has its’ roots-put your inquisitive mind at rest. It starts with our kids!! In a recent study partnered by Teenage Research Unlimited and the Liz Claiborne Corp., teens 13-18 were surveyed on the frequency of dating violence in their lives. The study revealed some shocking statistics and facts about the teen dating scene. Among many conclusions are that a significant percentage of teens not only are victims of dating abuse but also they accept it as normal and that they feel pressured to have and keep relationships particularly if it is a “serious” one. Teens in these serious relationships report by nearly a 2 to 1 margin more abuse, controlling and even violent behavior compared to other teens. The study also showed that: • 20% in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed • 30% report being worried about their physical safety • 64% report controlling behavior • 55% compromise their values to please their partner • 61% reported having a partner who made them feel bad or embarrassed about themselves • 25% report being in a relationship where their partner put them down or called them names • 29% said they were pressured to have sex they do not want. • 50% of young women worry that their partner will break up with them if they do not agree to engage in sex It is no wonder that this problem exists with teenage male belief systems that include: • Controlling their partners 24 WomanToWomanMagazine.com
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