KEEPING THE PEACE
Sheltering in place is not always easy on anyone. It can
be a stressful time as families cope with enforced stays
at home. Tempers can flare as frustrations grow. This
environment can make coping with the sometimescombative
behavior of loved ones living with dementia
especially hard.
It is particularly important for caregivers to try to be
compassionate and understanding of their loved ones
when confronted with mood swings, confused behavior
or lapses in memory. Keep them surrounded with familiar
things and on a familiar schedule. Do not confront them
about forgetfulness or behavior or try to confine them.
This can lead to unhealthy anger and damaging outbursts
that can be harmful to both family members and
themselves. Be especially patient when reminding loved
ones about practicing hygiene, as attempting to force
them or push them into it will cause unnecessary stress.
HOME SAFETY
As individuals living with dementia lose awareness of their
surroundings and become confused, they can face many
different hazards in the home. Caregivers need to pay
special attention to danger-proofing the home’s physical
environment in order to minimize hazards.
There some are some basic safety predications
to keep in mind:
• Never leave the loved one alone for any length of time.
• Install motion sensors that alert the household when
a door has been opened.
• Keep sharp objects in a safe place and out of cabinets
and drawers.
• Find a safe place to keep car keys. Do not allow the
loved one access to any vehicles.
• Remember to keep the loved one away from sources
of fire or heat such as gas fireplaces and stovetops.
HAVE A PLAN B
Ultimately, caregivers must plan for what happens if
they become sick themselves or the act of providing
care becomes too much for them. The issue needs to be
discussed with extended family, so alternative caregivers
and options can be identified. This can include carefullyvetted
home care providers, if proper safety precautions
are enforced.
No one can be expected to carry the responsibility of
caregiving by themselves at all times. Caregivers have to
be able to care for themselves as well. Having alternative
caregivers in place is vital to avoiding burnout, depression
or even physical health issues.
Caring for a loved one with dementia can be tough, but
it’s also rewarding. Although current circumstances are
challenging and can seem overwhelming, with planning,
perspective and commonsense steps, it’s a challenge that
can be overcome.
Rebecca Rushing, BSN, RN, is director of Client Care
Services for FirstLight Home Care. Nurse Beckie is a
certified dementia practitioner, an Ageless Grace brain
health educator and a Positive Approach® to Care
Independent Trainer. Beckie has more than 30 years of
nursing experience and a passion for the well-being of
older adults.
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